If you’re a WAHM, then you probably
know what WAHM means: “Work-at-Home Mom” or “Work-at-Home Married.” I’m a WAHM
when I live in the countryside (for half of the year, collectively). Some
people wonder what I do when I’m away from the city (and they kind of hint that
I’m probably on vacation!). Truth is, I’m still at work, as I distance-manage
our publishing office via the Internet (thank You, Lord, for technology!).
Aside from that, I get all the “action” that comes with being a WAHM. Here are
some excerpts:
• While chatting online with my
secretary, I suddenly hear a shout: “Mooooommmyyyyy!!!” My son has awakened
from slumber. I excuse myself from the chat, and go to the room. “Cuddle
time…one of my favorite times…in the morning,” I sing to him a song I made up,
and take some minutes to cuddle him. I lead him in his morning prayers before
having his breakfast prepared. Oh yeah, then I get back to my secretary.
• I focus on doing some reports, or
writing, or editing…I take a break. Break = Activity Time (part of
homeschooling my son). Break = “Mommy, can you play with me?” = I’m controlling
one of his robots or one of his stuffed toys and we’re in some land far away.
Break = Read-a-Book Time, like reading about and discussing epic battles in his
illustrated Bible. Break = I’m making up a story with his felt dinosaurs who
have different preferences for music — one likes classical, one likes jazz, one
likes rock, one likes contemporary worship (son and I sing the tunes together…voila,
homeschool music appreciation “class”!).
Here are the felt dinosaurs that "come to life" :) |
• At any given time that I’m either
coordinating with someone online or doing some work on my computer, any one or
more of these things can happen:
·
Helper: “Ma’am, wala nang asukal/kape/LPG/_________.” [“We’ve run out of
sugar/coffee (or whatever else….”)]
·
Doorbell rings and it’s either the security
guard with the newspaper, meat delivery guy, water delivery guy or someone who
needs to talk to the hubby.
·
I hear my son shouting at his nanny, so I have
to do some intervention for peace to reign once again.
·
Doorbell rings, I open the door, smile (while
quickly scanning my brain to try to recall who this familiar-looking man is
with two strangers…oh! They happen to be guests of my father-in-law who’s in
town). “Come in, come in!” I say, “Have a seat!” (Thank God, I am not so
frumpy-looking today. Although my hair can go in multiple directions and
can sometimes resemble gushing fountains in a plaza, I think it was somehow
presentable that day. Phew!)
• I am in an online video call and
someone from the office tells me that she sees the cook or the yaya (nanny) in
the kitchen behind me. Woops…change angle.
• I am in an online video meeting with
our management committee and I have to mute my microphone many times so as not
to disturb the meeting with the mooing of the nearby cows, or with “Mommy! I
want to bike!” or with the drilling of say, a panel in the kitchen.
WAHM: Work-at-Home…Madness? I can even
enumerate other “Ms” but they won’t be encouraging: Mayhem, Mess, Monster (eek!).
So I’d rather have…
WAHM: Work-at-Home…Marvel (Sounds like
some super-hero…my son would love this one). Yes. “Thank you for making me so
wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it.” (Psalm
139:14, NLT)
Work-at-Home…Ministry. Yes. “But this
beautiful treasure is contained in us—cracked pots made of earth
and clay—so that the transcendent character of this power will be clearly seen
as coming from God and not from us.” (2 Corinthians 4:7, VOICE)
Work-at-Home…Mercies. Yes. “But this I
call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of
the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they
are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:21-23, NRSV)
And I can relax, because my Big Boss
is also my Savior, my Strength, my Faithful Friend.
Can any of you relate? Feel free to
post your stories in the comments!
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Thanks Mich for sharing...Iam a WAHM! the "M's" in many ways: ) and yes, thank God for technology!
ReplyDeleteGod bless you City Girl: )
Hi! Thanks for reading! Thank God for His grace in our WAHM life! God bless you, too!
ReplyDeleteLove it, Mich! :) I can SO relate! :)
ReplyDeleteThere are days when I think, "I must be crazy to attempt to work from home and homeschool!" But God always reminds me that it's His call for me, for us now. :)
Thanks for sharing a bit of your WAHM life with us! :)
P.S. I have "liked" your page too! :) God bless always! :)
Hi Tina! Thanks for your support! And yes, there are those days of self-doubt and days just inches away from insanity, hahaha! But the Lord is so good, how He totally reassures His daughters! God bless!
DeleteAppreciate you sharing your experience; it let's others see that we face similar circumstances and they can be managed.
ReplyDeleteHi Kim! Thanks for dropping by! Ain't it good to know that there, indeed, is a method to the madness? God's grace is sufficient! ;)
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